Unemployment, Food Stamps, and the Myths of a “Good” Job

In 2013, Patrick and I faced an unexpected financial setback—he lost his job, and I was already navigating my own job loss. Years later, we found ourselves in a similar position, trying to make ends meet while applying for food stamps and dealing with the assumptions people made about our financial situation. This post isn’t about seeking pity; it’s about sharing the reality of what it’s like to live through these struggles, especially when others don’t see the full picture. On the outside, Patrick and I stay pretty upbeat, but at home, we’re battling some pretty massive storms!